Psychologist Carl Rogers used the word ‘Congruence’, when describing this relationship between the idealized self and the real self. The idealized self is an often-unreachable version of ourselves that we and society create, while the real self is the messy, imperfect inner truth. We want to be the idealized version because we believe that society will then regard us positively, so we struggle to maintain a version that does not really fit. (Perry, n.d.)
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Gerry Parke